A relationship with a Narcissist always follows three phases, the over-evaluations phase, the devaluation phase and the discard phase.
The shift could be gradual or almost seemingly overnight.
Suddenly the attention they so lavishly gave you is gone and replace by indifference and silence.
Days or weeks could go by and you won’t hear from them.
As the Narcissist withdraws, the target starts to cling and your demands for his attention and your need to understand what’s happening, grate on his nerves.
The harder you cling the more the Narcissist pulls away.