Remember that there are real people at the other end of the computer connections, and just like the offline world, lying or otherwise misleading people may result in hurt or angry feelings.
You should also watch carefully for other members being dishonest.
Use Common Sense While the vast majority of people using Internet services such as NZDating are normal and law-abiding; (in fact statistics tell us that these users are often highly educated, white-collar workers that earn above average incomes), unfortunately the Internet - just like the 'offline' world does have its share of unscrupulous users lurking in dark corners waiting to take advantage of trusting or naive people.
Our best advice is to use common sense as you would everywhere else. If something or someone sounds too good to be true then they probably are.
Another common ploy is for them to be at the airport on the way to visit you, but his credit card has been declined or their travel documents are stolen or lost.
Be wary of Overseas Military and professional looking photos Scammers typically create fake online profiles designed to lure you in.
Communicate using NZDating If you have no reason to take a conversation outside of NZDating you are best to communicate using the NZDating systems.
In extreme cases messages sent using NZDating systems can be traced and appropriate action taken, whereas external mail services may not be possible to validate and may fall outside of the NZ legal system.
Watch for Warning Signs Watch for warning signs by paying attention to any displays of anger, excessive frustration, or attempts to pressure or control you.Members acting in a passive-aggressive manner, making demeaning or insulting comments may be exhibiting warning signs.Often letting a friend read over your messages is a good idea as they may spot warning signs you have missed.Requests for Money or Bank Transfers Never, ever transfer money to a anyone's bank account or arrange any form of payment using other methods.Requests for personal information Don't share personal information such as your address or date of birth, be vigilant about users who ask you to leave the site and/or request any of personal contact details or email address.