Previously I provided some holiday season advice on dating Dutch women which many of my fellow expats appear to have ignored at their peril.The Shallow Man has even started a counselling group called ‘Dutch women survivors’ for expat men who have been shot down in flames when attempting to approach Dutch women.If you really do treasure your love, make a difference with these tips.
True, falling in love is easy, but staying in love always needs a bit of work.[Read: Insecurity in a relationship] #20 Trust your partner and your instincts, even if others say otherwise.[Read: How to build trust in a relationship] #21 Never grumble or badmouth each other even if you’re tempted to, out of anger or frustration. There’s no better way to fall more in love with each other as the relationship grows. A few pillow fights or cute wrestles can never hurt anyone.Just because you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean you should let yourself go and look shabby.#14 Compliment your partner, even if it’s a regular chore or habit.